” We become part of what we are around.”
We sometimes talk so negativity in front of our kids; it’s not possible to send you to a party, that’s too expensive I can’t afford to buy you, you can’t do that etc.. have you noticed that ” not ” sounded so negative, our brains don’t even understand those negative sentences, a perfect example can be our surroundings, when we see any notice written on the wall like: do not park your car here, you would see most people will park the car there, because brain doesn’t understand a negative sentence, we can say avoid parking car here, or use other positive sentences.
Similarly, when we let our children talk to negative people they also learn to be negative as in early age things can be learned or adopted quickly, after listening to toxic people, kids may from drained.
Just a few days back, while I was having a conversation with my youngest brother’s teacher, I actually felt the need of positive teachers, who should not be the ” dream killers” when teachers or any other person tells kids that don’t choose this profession it is difficult, they actually emit negative energy, demotivate children and becomes ” dream killers” whenever, parents wish to choose a school, teacher or anything else for children they should make sure a positive attitude and an environment, which is essential for a successful person of future.
We all must have noticed that, it feels enthusiastic and supportive when we or our children are surrounded by positive people.
A mirror reflect a man’s face, but what he is really like is shown by the kid of friends he chooses.
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