“In fact, the confidence of the people is worth more than money.”– Carter G. Woodson
Many of us feel so much confidant, when we are alone in a room where nobody can see us, we think that we are the most confidant people who can conquer the world, we are better than anyone, but in reality, we become better when we stop this comparison, we should wish to be better than our own selves. Let’s compare the old ‘us’ with the new ‘us. Have we improved? If we get the positive answers for this question, from our souls then ‘YES’, we are confident and indeed better than our old versions.
Allah has designed us beautifully, He excluded “comparison” from our systems. Our system is comparison free, we match the level of all, so why do we think that we are above or below from somebody, this is what confidence is. Our talents emerge and souls get peace when the comparison dies.
We are good enough; we are confident right now. We just need to change our mindset, which does not accept “comparison” but we still try to insert it. It is time to develop confidence in many smartest ways.
1) Let’s work on our postures and physiology. Learn to stand tall and strong with a fully charged mind and heart.
2) Make eye contact, and head should be up. Anyone can develop confidence if tries a little.
3) Learn to trust others; like family, friends, partners.
4) Make confidence a permanent thing, because only shyness is selective and temporary.
5) Learn to know the greatest side without even seeing them. It makes the silent winners.
We all can become the humble champions with our confidence with the only ingredient that is self-trust. We can change anything in the world, anything! We can be anything in the life of our choices because we are committed to finding the answers to the questions which life throws at us.
Life gives us the opportunity to unlock the unbelievable versions of ourselves, we need to grab this opportunity with our mind and heart. _DHS