“Success is never certain, but self-doubt, negativity and low expectations guarantee failure. (John F. Murray)
We live our lives wrong because we avoid believing in ourselves, we believe in others more than our skills. Our today’s action can truly help us change our future. We mostly, keep telling ourselves that we are not worthy enough for that work, we are not strong enough to participate, we are not smart enough to answer them.
In fact, we are already the winner because we have confidence, we are strong and smart too but we have doubts on us. This is why we fail to get what we deserve. Self-doubt is more dangerous than poison for our future and present.
“I love me” why not? When we are able to gain self confidence and remove those doubtful thoughts, it makes us love ourselves and then others. The day when we will avoid giving the access to the negative opinions of people about us, we will be able to trust ourselves. It can be the new beginning of the life. We can have a self-loving and secure life. We can get what it takes by avoiding self-doubt. Here I would like to share some tips to avoid self-doubt.
1) Feel strong, take help from Quran recite and understand its meaning, and we can feel that Allah is talking to us, we are not alone.
2) Avoid getting worried for every little thing, recite Allah’s names in heart to feel calm.
3) Be surrounded with the right people.
4) Feel the power within, offer prayers, observe fast. Do some exercise.
5) Divert mind whenever, there is a negative thought or self-doubt.
“Nobody can be our better friend than we ourselves.” -DHS